Chapter 610 It’s useless in front of me
Chapter 610 It’s useless in front of me
Mu Fanyun stared at Dai Jia and asked, "Are you serious?"
"Ah."
Dai Jia nodded and said, "I want to go back and manage the relationship between me and him."
"How to operate?"
Mu Fanyun said: "Keep him company, treat him as your private property, and maximize your possessiveness? In the end, he couldn't stand your possessiveness, so he broke up with you, and then you two After two episodes, you lost your studies and the person you loved most. Looking back many years later, do you think you were stupid at the time?"
Mu Fanyun's words made Dai Jia's emotions become more complicated. She looked at Mu Fanyun, pursed her lips and said, "Auntie..."
"I am someone who has been through this. I know your mood and thoughts very well, and I can also see your regrets a few years later at a glance."
Mu Fanyun combined her many years of experience into a philosophy of life, "Human nature is like this. The more you love someone, the more possessive you will be. This seems to be true, but in fact it is completely wrong. The possessiveness is too strong. It’s just counterproductive.”
"what do you mean?"
Dai Jia looked at Mu Fanyun with confusion.
"The more you like someone, the more distance you should keep between them. Don't let passion, freshness and love quickly die out in a short period of close contact."
Mu Fanyun said sincerely: "Besides, he has his own affairs. Even if you go back, he won't be with you every day. You must have your own affairs, just like..."
After a pause, Mu Fanyun added: "Come to Duke University now to fulfill your childhood dream."
Dai Jia nodded slightly, seeming to understand.
Mu Fanyun continued: "In addition to your dream of coming to Duke University, you should have a longer-term dream. Maybe the dream may not be fulfilled, but it can make you a beacon of life and heal you when you are sad and painful. Sadness and pain guide you not to stop, to keep moving forward.”
"I understand."
Dai Jia pursed her lips and said, "You mean to stop me from focusing all my attention on Yu Nian, right?"
"Yes, don't put all your thoughts on Yu Nian, but..."
Mu Fanyun smiled and continued: "You can't not see each other for a long time. Either you let him come to you, or you go to him, and make sure to meet at least once every two months, and..."
Holding Dai Jia's hand tightly, Mu Fanyun said very seriously: "Boys of his age are full of energy, and with money, there are many temptations, so you should give him what you have to give, and you can't keep hanging on him. It’s just like fishing, the line can’t be too tight.”
"We've been officially together for about two months."
Dai Jia's face was flushed, and she lowered her head and said, "It's not appropriate."
"There is no substantive relationship between you?"
Mu Fanyun's face was full of surprise and disbelief.
She had received Western education since she was a child and felt that it was completely normal for the two of them to have a relationship.
She is different from Mu Fanqin, it's like she thinks free love is something worth pursuing.
Dai Jia shook his head and said, "There has never been a chance."
"For this kind of thing, if there is no chance, you have to create an opportunity."
Mu Fanyun said very seriously: "If there is no substantive relationship between men and women, it is like duckweeds without roots. Do you understand?"
"I see."
Dai Jia nodded and said tangledly: "But it might be difficult for him to come abroad to visit me."
"It's all right."
Mu Fanyun thought for a while and said, "At the end of next month, I will help you ask for leave from the school. You go back to visit him and finish what needs to be done."
Dai Jia blushed so much that she could bleed.
Mu Fanyun said nonchalantly: "What's there to be embarrassed about? I think back on when your uncle and I met and we lived together in less than three days, isn't our relationship pretty good now? Girls can be conservative. , but you can’t be too conservative, understand? You have to use your body to capture his heart, and feed him from time to time, but you can’t feed him too much.”
"Auntie, I see."
Dai Jia's face became more hopeful, "Can you really help me ask for leave from school next month?"
"Auntie won't lie to you."
Mu Fanyun said: "I believe auntie, but you must not tell your mother what I just told you."
"Do not worry."
Dai Jia smiled happily and said, "I will definitely not stab my aunt in the back."
"That's good."
Mu Fanyun said: "Your mother is an old antique and a typical conservative. You know better than me. If she knew that I guided you to have a relationship with your boyfriend, she would probably come here from China to fight with me!"
"Auntie, don't worry, I won't tell my mother."
Dai Jia wiped away the unhappiness in his heart. After talking with Mu Fanyun, he felt much better. "You go ahead, I'll go back to class."
"Ah."
Mu Fanyun said: "Go."
"Auntie, I'm leaving. I'll treat you to dinner later."
Dai Jia waved to Mu Fanyun, hugged the book and walked out of the office with relief.
……
Until the car drove to Zhongnan University of Finance and Economics, Yu Nian still didn't agree to Ren Heng's partnership to purchase Yuxin Coal Mine.
"Lao Yu, I'm already talking about being bald, why don't you really think about it?"
Ren Heng said unwillingly: "Look at me, I finally want to start a business and prove myself. As a brother, do you have to accompany me up the mountain of swords and the sea of fire?"
"I don't like going up mountains of swords and seas of fire."
The car stopped, Yu Nian opened the door and got out, lit a cigarette skillfully, and said, "Brothers who can only take me up mountains of swords and seas of fire, don't forget about it."
Ren Heng, who got off the car with him, had black lines all over his head, and continued to say earnestly: "Do you think it's okay if I don't let you take any amount of money? You only need to take [-]% of the shares, okay? I won't let you get any more. take."
"Based on your financial situation, it stands to reason that you are not short of this amount of money."
Yu Nian looked at Ren Heng suspiciously, stared at it for a few times and said, "You don't have any plots waiting for me, do you?"
"What are you talking about?"
Ren Heng curled his lips and said, "I'm not that kind of person."
Seeing Ren Xi walking side by side with Zhou Wan from a distance, Ren Heng looked at Ren Xi and said, "Don't tell me, my sister is getting more and more beautiful as she grows. I don't know who she will take advantage of in the future."
"Honey traps don't work in front of me."
In order to make Ren Heng give up, Yu Nian said very simply: "Even if you say Po Tian, I will not invest in Yuxin Coal Mine."
"Alas, what you said is not enough for a friend. You know, I am not short of money, but I have no experience in doing business. I asked you to do it together. The main reason is that I feel that I can have an intimate person to discuss things with. You understand. Didn’t I mean that?”
Ren Heng put his arm around Yu Nian's shoulders and watched as Yu Nian smoked and said nothing. Ren Heng advised, "Smok less. Smoking too much is bad for your health. You may get lung cancer."
Seeing Ren Xi and Zhou Wan approaching, Ren Heng smiled and said hello, "Sister-in-law, are you here?"
After saying this, Yu Guang deliberately glanced at Yu Nian and saw that Yu Nian's expression was calm and full of helplessness.
Yu Nian told him last time that the two of them were just trying to cope with the superficial relationship between family members, so he specifically used the title of sister-in-law to disgust Yu Nian in revenge for Yu Nian's refusal to invest.
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